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Family violence, explained simply

Family violence is violent, threatening or controlling behaviour inside a family or domestic relationship. The important thing to understand: under Australian law it isn't limited to physical injury — behaviour that causes fear or control, like coercive control or financial abuse, can count too.

The basics

What family violence means

It covers a family or domestic relationship — partners and ex-partners, parents and children, siblings, and other relatives or household members. Every state has its own framework, but all of them treat family violence as a priority, and it can lead to criminal charges, protection orders, and prison.

FAMILY VIOLENCE TAKES MANY FORMS Physical Sexual Threats EmotionalStalking Financial Property damage Isolation Not just physical — behaviour that causes fear or control can count.
Family violence is broader than physical harm. It includes coercive control, financial and emotional abuse, stalking, threats, property damage and cutting someone off from others.
How it shows up in real cases
  • Physical assault — a partner is hit during an argument, charged as assault occasioning bodily harm.
  • Coercive control — tracking a partner's phone, isolating them and controlling their money, charged under stalking, intimidation or economic-abuse provisions.
  • Breach of order — contacting an ex despite a protection order, charged as a breach, which can mean prison.
How it starts

How police lay charges

Police treat family-violence reports seriously, and can charge even without the victim's consent. The usual path:

  1. An incident is reported — by the person, a neighbour, a friend, or a professional.
  2. Police attend — assess the scene, speak to those involved, and gather evidence.
  3. Arrest or intervention — the alleged offender may be arrested or removed from the home.
  4. Charges are laid — such as assault, stalking, or property damage.
  5. A protection order — police may apply for a temporary order to protect the person.

A victim doesn't need to "press charges". Even though family violence often happens behind closed doors, police and prosecutors can proceed on the available evidence — statements, photos of injuries or damage, texts and emails, recordings, medical reports, or body-worn camera footage.

In court

The court process

  1. First appearance (mention) — the accused appears; bail may be considered.
  2. Intervention order hearing — a separate hearing may deal with any protection order.
  3. Plea — guilty or not guilty.
  4. Hearing or trial — evidence is presented and witnesses may be cross-examined.
  5. Verdict & sentencing — penalties can include prison, fines, community orders, or mandated counselling.

Where children are involved, the matter may also intersect with Family Court proceedings.

What to do

If you're affected

If you're a victim

Getting safe & supported

  • Call 000 in an emergency.
  • Seek a protection order through police or the court.
  • Contact support like 1800RESPECT (1800 737 732), and document incidents.
If you've been accused

Protecting your position

  • Get legal advice immediately, and don't breach any protection order.
  • Comply with bail and court conditions, and don't contact the alleged victim.
  • Remember texts, emails and other records can be used as evidence.
By state & territory

Laws, orders & penalties by state

Family violence is charged through underlying offences, alongside a protection order. Pick your state to see the order's name and the penalty range.

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This is general information, not legal advice. Family-violence laws, orders and penalties vary by state, and every case turns on its own facts. If you've been charged or are under investigation, speak with a criminal lawyer or your state's Legal Aid service. If you're in danger, call 000.

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